WHY WE NEED TO BOOST OUR GIRL CODE GAME

"Oh my god! Here she comes, just one look at her makes me wanna throw up. Man, I don't know how her boyfriend deals with her. Lol" 

Have you ever heard, someone use such a statement ? 

Not the exact one, I mean something similar ?

I don't know about you, but what I do know is people do use such hate, actually in a more creative way. Some even are talented for it. And yes I'll focus more on women.

Because girls y'all gotta know WHY WE NEED TO BOOST OUR GIRL CODE GAME

It's so much I'm like where to begin, so let me break it down for you. 

First, we all live in a world where for once we all have promoted equality or feminism, we feel so strong about it, that we even post about women being there for women. Yes, I have done it too and most of us do it.

It's so common, isn't it ? We women want our voices heard right ? 

We do so much for each other, we are such good friends, but what we don't see is what we are missing out on. The truth is we do the opposite too, we ourselves being women bring other women down. In fact, the statement used above is based on a true event and was used for a woman, by a woman.

I mean I don't get the point of promoting all those things, which in reality, we never do. We ourselves body shame, hate, compete and even degrade dignities of other women. Then, the thing that we do the best, blame game, just blame men for it, but we don't reflect it on ourselves.

For example :

If someone is driving like nuts, we just use the term :

" Why you driving like a girl ? "

Or like, you know the most common ? 

" Boys don't cry. "

Like we're not promoting the stereotypes, another anti feminist act.

So can we ask ourselves before we ask men for respect ?

Why do we play them so bad, by being, so self biased ? And at the same time, when a man does something wrong we call them anti- feminist, but like who is acting in an anti- feminist way ? And who is misusing it ?

Honestly, the present scenario of feminism is a joke, as everyone has taken it in the wrong sense because it is never about hating men, or bringing them down, instead it is about equal rights and equal opportunities both for men and women. 

Hence, I would like to conclude by strongly agreeing on the fact that boys have a better code because they don't gossip like us and are comparatively chill. They treat each other as literal brothers and try to support each other. They play as a team, not against each other.

So, I guess it's high time girls, what do you think ? Why don't we start working on it ? The sooner, the better. 

It's just what I think, the rest is your choice. For sure :)