WHY WE NEED TO BOOST OUR GIRL CODE GAME

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"Oh my god! Here she comes, just one look at her makes me wanna throw up. Man, I don't know how her boyfriend deals with her. Lol"  Have you ever heard, someone use such a statement ?  Not the exact one, I mean something similar ? I don't know about you, but what I do know is people do use such hate, actually in a more creative way. Some even are talented for it. And yes I'll focus more on women. Because girls y'all gotta know  WHY WE NEED TO BOOST OUR GIRL CODE GAME It's so much I'm like where to begin, so let me break it down for you.  First, we all live in a world where for once we all have promoted equality or feminism, we feel so strong about it, that  we  even post about women being there for women. Yes, I have done it too and most of us do it. It's so common, isn't it ? We women want our voices heard right ?  We do so much for each other, we are such good friends, but what we don't see is what we are missing out on. The truth is we d...
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BEST WAYS TO START FEELING GREAT ABOUT YOURSELF

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 SO THIS IS MY FIRST POST ON PINTEREST, I HAD NO IDEA WHAT I AM GOING TO DO OR HOW BUT I'M GLAD I'M FINALLY HERE.
           
 

 
  SO HERE ARE THE BEST WAYS TO START FEELING GREAT ABOUT YOURSELF                


1. ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE

First of all, you should accept the fact that you're an human, and it's okay to make mistakes. Everyone makes some in their life, it should be a lesson not something to make you look down upon yourself. Learn to embrace yourself, believe me it's only you in the end who's always got your back. Try maintaining a feelings journal, it will help you connect and reflect on them.

2. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Start believing in yourself. If you know you can do it, and you have faith in yourself, trust me the journey becomes a lot easier. Believe that the choices you made were always the best way out even if they wasn't. It's very easy to lose faith and lose your track but believing in yourself can significantly affect your future choices.

3. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY

Yes, this is a very important step, you need to be selfish on this part and cut down negative people, no matter how important they are to you but if they bring you down in any way, they do not deserve your time. In fact bond with people who you can actually share your feelings with without being judged or mocked. 

4. TAKE A BREAK

Sometimes it can be really hard keeping up with reality, so don't be afraid to give yourself a break. It can vary from an vacation to even an coffee break, as long as it acts as a de-stress and helps you take things off your mind.

5. TAKE UP A HOBBY

Take up something you love doing, can help you acknowledge how good you are, although it is advised to take up little tasks and reward yourself with little pep talks when you achieve them.

6. ADOPT A PET 

If you love animals, this one is for you. you can adopt a pet to keep you company plus they emotionally bond with you and help release " feel good hormones" which will actually help you feel good.

7. VOLUNTEER

If one thing doesn't work your way try it the other way. Hence volunteering does the same, as you do something good on the outside it makes you feel too good on the inside. So definitely a win win.

8. ASK FOR HELP
 
It's okay to not be okay, but you don't have to go through it alone. You can always talk to someone who you trust about your feelings, it could be a friend, sibling, parent, relative to which you are comfortable or you can even get professional help. it will help you know your feelings and reflect on them.


IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF YOUR FEELINGS AND YOU BEING ABLE TO CHANNELIZE THEM.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
IT IS OKAY TO GET HELP.


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